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Word of the Year



A few years ago I read about this idea of selecting an aspirational word that

represents something you’d like to embody more fully in the coming year. The idea

engaged me. Not a word that I would use to judge myself. Not a word that was

too unattainable, or too vague. Not a quality that I wasn’t already familiar with. But

something more like a seed that already existed in me that I wanted to tend, to

become aware of, to remove obstacles so that that quality might grow into its own

fullness. That first year I decided on the word “kindness”. I did already see myself

as a kind person, but I wanted to be maybe 10% kinder. So I just decided to take

that as my “word of the year.”

I tried just to have the word in the forefront of my mind. I didn’t actively seek to

become kinder. I just had a sort of radar around the word. I noticed when I was

not kind. I did not berate myself for that. But, I did take note. I didn’t keep score, or

keep a journal about it, or tell people about this journey. It was not like a self-improvement project. I just committed to NOTICING kindness in my life. Both

kindness that I received and that I offered to others.

Simply to note it, had its own rewards. I think I became a bit kinder merely because it

was on the front burner of my life. I discovered that it was a more difficult challenge than I might have thought. I read some articles about kindness. I thought about people I know who are kind. It was an adventure that felt well worth taking. I commend it for your consideration.

Think about some quality that you already have but might like to embody more

fully. Maybe you’d like to be; braver, more honest, open-minded, confident, kind,

trusting. Or maybe you’d like to say “yes” more often, or maybe “No”. Maybe you

seek more patience or adventure, self-acceptance or light-heartedness. Maybe you’d like more connection, deeper friendships, more solitude. Maybe you’d like to read more or ,

or, or??? As the calendar turns, it seems like a good time to also consider what kinds of turning we might like in our own lives. I see this “Word of the Year” as more of a magnet that on its own draws you toward it rather than something that you resolutely march toward.

Let me know if you try it and what you find. May 2021 unfold with opportunities for

you to become more of who you want to be.


My word for this year will be "Tactfulness". Yours??

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Mary Allan
Mary Allan
Jan 01, 2021

My word is MIRACLES. I want to look for the small miracles that show themselves, daily, in my life.


This past fall, when I learned that Big Basin State Park had burned, I was absolutely devastated; I loved that park and visited it often, thinking about each of the flora and fauna treasures as my friend. When I expressed this to my son, he responded with, “Mom, there is alot of beauty amidst the burn; you might want to go out and find it..” I captured some photos while I drove through the burn area; one in particular resonated with me: a lone and blooming lily stood strident and tall, radiating all its beauty, surrounded by a charred hillside. …

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Charmaine
Dec 31, 2020

Hi Penny. This is lovely and I think, a great idea. My word is "surrender" as used by Michael Singer in "The Surrender Experiment" and The Untethered Soul". We'll see how we go!

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